The Real Side of Social Media

Dairy farmer @FarmerHeins rides a cowhorse for the first time.

Dairy farmer rides a cowhorse for the first time.

I had friends in college who played that ridiculous Sims game. My over-simplified idea of it ran along the lines of a fake world that real people orchestrated from the computer. I think sometimes people view social media the same way. That the people we talk to on Twitter and Facebook aren’t “real” people or “real” friends.

They are.

I had the privilige of hosting Chris Heins of @FarmerHeins Twitter fame this weekend. He’s a dairy farmer from Missouri, and I’m pretty sure we’re friends.

I learned all about things like days in milk, the fresh pen, milk tanks and calf huts. I feel like I can hang with the dairy boys a bit better now that I’ve got a handle on the lingo. And I wish I had a picture of him describing the barn set-up and flushing system using my kitchen table placemat.

He learned about beef cattle, border collies and riding horses. He got to see garbanzo bean fields, wheat harvest and an old-time threshing bee. I love where I live, and showing it to a friend this weekend helped me see it with fresh eyes.

It’s not just avatars and 140 characters. Social media people are real. The friendships are real. The conversations are meaningful, and the opportunities to learn are boundless.

Thanks to Chris, I now have a broader agricultural knowledge base. That’s awesome, and it wouldn’t have happened without social media. It’s a small world, but I doubt I would have bumped into him in the grocery store or on the airplane.

Social media is a powerful landscape for learning more about agriculture. Embrace it; there’s always something more to learn.

Why I Don’t Swear on my Blog

Cuss Box: Why I Don't Swear on my BlogSwearing on a blog is like blog design. You notice when bad words and bad design are there, but you don’t really notice if the words are all “good” or the design is good. Swearing and blog design are also similar in that they are a personal choice.

I rarely, if ever, choose to use foul language on my website for three main reasons.

  1. It’s not professional. It is not the image I want to portray, and it isn’t my style. There are some wildly successful bloggers who could put a crusty old rancher back on his heels with their language. I follow a few of them, and I respect that their style of writing is different than mine. But I still think it is unprofessional.
  2. My mom reads my blog. She does some of the time, anyway, and she’s not a user of swear words. Out of respect for her and all my other readers who do get offended by swearing, I choose not to use it on my blog. Have you ever heard someone get offended by the absence of bad language?
  3. The potential of future tiny humans. This is my biggest reason I choose not to swear on my blog. Should all the blades of grass on this planet shift to the right and I actually create my own tiny humans, I want this blog to be something they eventually turn to for history, for learning, for knowing their mum a little better than before. I don’t want my unborn tiny humans to read post after post filled with bad words they’ve been told not to say.

I’m not a perfect person. In the height of frustration, stress and anger, I can string together a bucket of curse words. My tongue sometimes gets the better of me, but in writing I have the opportunity to edit what I say before sharing it with the world.

I choose to edit any curse words, and that’s why I don’t swear on my blog. How about you? Curse or non?

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